The alcohol distraction..

Alcohol 

The alcohol distraction, in relation to people’s vision.

The successful people
They usually don’t “drive” through alcohol habits, as they are driven, disciplined and committed to facilitate their own vision. The top elite, athletes, entrepreneurs, high achievers, CEO’s, all like to be clear minded and consistent in what they do. They don’t fall into the so called “benefits” because they just know how it would also only interfere with their performance they are aiming for. They just know how alcohol don’t matter to themselves, the experience doesn’t even feel real. Most of them could easily have a few drinks on occasions, but this wont dilute or disrupt the flow they are living (vision). People with strong flow states can become  extreme, for instance during weekends or holidays… weekends or holidays? doesn’t even exist – their flow is ruling the whole week permanently ; they would appreciate some rest and distraction such as a ski holiday or some socializing with a drink.. but not door too long, otherwise they get very bored quickly. They move and they just love to focus, so they manage to attract waves of opportunities; they don’t like to be distracted too much by the things outside themselves. Successful people find their own path/purpose/vision more easily, they don’t want to waste to much time on distractions, they also don’t like to be affected by any drama from other people, because, complaining also doesn’t serve. Finally, to avoid any misperceptions about the successful people who do love alcohol; they usually build their success before any alcohol habits evolved into their life’s. As alcohol may only have been about pleasure and relaxation (instead of a coping mechanism)  they will pay a price anyways, although they won’t even realize how their habits are wasting 30% of their time & energy, they even think they can afford it: some successful people could die instantly while their business  still generates income (think about famous popstars where the money keeps flowing after they died). We need to see it from a true perspective: did any alcohol supported anyone to any success? Of course not, it’s more obvious that we envy the successful people who look so “confident with a drink” without seeing the truth underneath. Truth is… alcohol slows everyone down over time (no matter how succesful they are), everyone will attract less! This is about a drug which tempers any direction, because it takes..time, money, health, even freedom.

The average people
Many people are highjacked by society as a system with responsibilities to survive; busy jobs to pay the bills, raising the kids, struggling to find peace, freedom & relaxations. Moderating any alcohol habits becomes attractive as our society promotes alcohol 24/7  as a “benefit” (it doesn’t matter weather its 7 glasses on Friday evening or 2 glasses daily) . Many people move into dependency very slowly, while being completely in denial of a drug, because, as long as alcohol is within reach, life appears to be fine. This is why so many people loose their spirit to keep aiming for bigger dreams. As people learn how to numb anything, it becomes far easier to cope any discomforts, instead of building a life to impact (as this would require some suffering, discipline and consistency). Why would people choose a more difficult & unknown path, if the alcohol (the known path) can “benefit” as a distraction to feel comfortable enough? Any pain of their current situation doesn’t outweigh the pain of not being where they want to be. The price they pay though, is to underperform in many areas of their life over time, while making the alcohol industry & government very rich.

The people who are “alcoholic”
They are mostly get killed by alcohol sooner or later, as they are not only mentally dependent but also physically addicted to a dangerous poison. Only professional medical care should apply to them to try saving their life’s. However, this small group of people only represent 0,1% of the story, on how alcohol is impacting/harming society, it doesn’t even make sense to focus on the extreme disasters, when there is a much larger group of people who are missing out, towards opportunities & self-improvement.

The people who need vision
Sensitive people are more likely to be in need of life directions compared to others. This is a blessing as they crave a higher quality flow, but its also their curse as they are more sensitive to boredom or anxiety with related feelings such as emptiness or nervousity. Because the lack of alignment with themselves, they become more self centered or self conscious; nature is forcing them to find answers from the within, which brings them also in a place of loneliness. The solution to cover everything up? Alcohol as a distraction! At least you get that instant happiness back, while numbing the lack, to catch up again within a familiar flow in the present moment.

Alcohol proposes itself as a “very effective solution” to sensitive-talented-creative people who are feel the need of a better flow. Think about those talented people who needed to cope with life and died to young, such as Matthew Parry (actor series friends) or many of those artists such as Amy Winehouse. People get hit by ‘anxiety flows’, where alcohol proposes itself again as the solution. The same applies when people get too bored as they miss the ability to manifest themselves into the future; their lack of direction feels empty, like they are wasting their time and energy, for instance within repeating-robotic-slavery jobs. Think about how difficult it to propose a better direction to all of them; should we say to the successful artist: you are very successful to the public, but you are in the wrong business because your life direction (flow) is too overwhelming? They already stuck as slaves, to the outside world expectations, so, it’s far easier to keep the alcohol solution in the toolbox to keep flow isn’t it? And should we say to the bored person: just choose another company with the same kind of job? That doesn’t feel like a solution does it? People get stressed out as a symptom (crying for change) but they don’t recognize the need of another direction. They also feel that standing still is not even an option, because people are meant to move to order, otherwise entropy (chaos) kicks in. Their “only way out” is to keep flow by a solution that makes it worse. Let’s keep celebrating success, let’s get that confidence back, through the same familiar life paths, let’s feel the excitement again (caused by a drug of which people need to recover from again and again).

As sensitive people get easily anxious or bored, it makes perfectly sense to entertain their minds with instant gratification (cheap dopamine). This is bad, because it tricks the mind to think they are making progress, while loosing the natural desire to pursue something better. People learn alcohol to fill their voids, but alcohol will do everything it can, to make sure they get stuck in their voids; it doesn’t solve anything, it only covers up And makes it worse. As the whole process goes faster than the average people, they are dealing with the most dangerous drug on the planet: alcohol brings them in a continuous state of mediocrity, just to feel fine (again) like the average people, except that become miserable over time, as they keep numbing their boredom or anxiety (instead of moving to an ideal flow state through the direction they really need). Alcohol becomes a procrastination against their evolution; people get trapped in this weird place, they get into a constant state of anesthesia, moving further away from themselves, not being able of controlling their life to the direction they really need. The drug will introduce more anxiety, less confidence, less clarity, less focus, less healthy conditions. Over time, people will have to deal with stronger emotions, more impulsivity, weaker choices/decisions.. which are all weak guidance’s to life. What they actually need is vision to move with strategy, through an ideal flow state to avoid the emotional mess.

So how about you?
Do you have sensitive super powers? Do you recognize the flaws that comes with it? Does your life includes weekly or daily alcohol habits? You should become aware of a narrow flow state, where anxiety or boredom may be the enemy holding you back in life. Why? Because you are need a strong vision to avoid uncertain directions. Secondly, because alcohol WILL work against your vision as you get older, usually after your 30-ties to 50-ties. Any repetition of the poison affects everyone over a long period of time. Basically there are truly only two ways to approach this:

Choose moderation as an illusional distraction to a mediocre- low fulfilling- less successful life (as already proved to you). Just keep coping with your boredom or anxiety (with a drink of course) to create a “safe environment” , while building up more stress into your life (as alcohol being a poison). Then, numb that pain again with the same painkiller to continue the loop of an invisible prison that you are not even aware off.

Or

Get curious, learn how alcohol is to be an powerful distraction, which holds you back on cultivating a powerful vision. You are mostly not even aware about the uncertainties to the direction you need. Some people are already in a bad place, hitting depression, overthinking as an effort to get rid of the uncertainties while latterly depleting all their mental resources with constant worries, by the feeling that they must know- and figure everything out now, without understanding the need of alignment with reality to develop a vision. They don’t see how another direction is to be much more important than their speed to (re)gain happiness; they keep believing that any alcohol habits helps them “celebrate life”, while no vision is being cultivated as a radical changing direction to the unknown.

The importance of mental health
People should be motivated to maximize their mental health energy. Health, has more value than any money can buy: it’s the foundation to attract everything else in life. The main reason to review your limited beliefs around alcohol, is because your are missing unique, key knowledge and understanding. This isn’t even about alcohol, this is about you, missing your most ideal flow state in life, where you are about to think in terms of your own goals and how to achieve these within your own reach. People underestimate the need of their vision; they let society assign them with goals to believe in, to follow their (often poor) vision which moves them away from themselves. Alcohol, is playing a key role aside, by keeping people dumb and intoxicated, too comfortable, to even able to think about any vision.

Any vision should be formed through spirit, UNLESS alcohol is in the game to BLUR that spirit and vision, by distorting your reality. With a vision, you WILL operate within a smooth flow state, as you automatically move towards opportunities, being attracted by your own vision. Everything you will do, every choice you will make, will be motivated by the directions of what you say your vision is. The force of attraction will rise up by itself as you become a magnet from who you are and where your vision is guiding you to; you are moving at your own speed from the within.

Dishing any alcohol has many benefits. Your health gets better, your relationships improves, you sleep better, you become more productive, your decision-making gets better. But, here are the real benefits when you start cultivating a vision while leaving the alcohol aside:

You get more grounded to reality
You get to your true essence
You get more energy which makes you move, releasing the healthy brain chemicals
You find more gratitude as a frequency to attract
You get driven by what you love to do
You get to know what you believe
You identify problems that matters to you
By doing so, you get creative with solutions to those problems. which defines where you want to go, to become someone of value
You get the opportunity to develop your vision
You regain life control through focus, while leaving distractions that doesn’t serve you AND others
You  start making the necessary steps in a certain direction to serve
You don’t feel lonely, as your state of mind brings flow in your life
You stop pleasing others, you start living authentically to please yourself, while offering value that resonates with others
You get extremely confident by your own beliefs
You are more likely to engage (connect) with people, as you offer your value to them
You don’t resist any alcohol, because there is no willpower involved to resist something you don’t believe in.
You are gluing your reality towards a future reality;  you don’t have the desire to distract yourself, so your spirit can open up to a vision.
Your future is now awaiting to be attracted through faith, not fear.

The energy that alcohol takes from build up habits, is the same energy that can make you become a genius or superstar. The difference is how life-energy is taken through poison, or being attracted through vision. Those are the exact opposite directions to each other and both are dictated by what you believe to be true. Ask successful people about the meaning of their vision, it’s their secret. They all get addicted to the power of their own beliefs and their focus, to attract a better reality. Once people start to understand alcohol as a limited belief system, they also get to understand how they can unlock any true belief to serve & attract!

Learn, how people get trapped in the past, coping with anxieties or boredom, by a limited alcohol belief system holding them back. Are you ready to reflect yourself on who you are! Learn alcohol and get your vision straight, so they can follow you. (Video credit: Dr. Jordan B Peterson).